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As you well know by now, I have a birthday coming up. Which is fine. I’m OK with my age. However, if you ask me just how old I am I will lie through my teeth and tell you I’m 42. Just sayin’.

And because my darling husband has been deep in the trenches of researching, I’ve known what my birthday gift is going to be for some time. It doesn’t really take the polish off the event, because I’m no fan of surprises. He actually looked at me and mocked me about throwing a big birthday bash… to which I threatened to change the locks on him!

But, there is a difference between being humiliated in public and the more gentle experience of, “What?? For me? You shouldn’t have!” Which was my experience on Friday. Kathleen and I had traveled into Portland to spend the day thrifting and she brought along a birthday gift. She makes these lovely pendants (as well other stuff… check out her shop!!) and I’ve been craving one for ages now.

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However, the real gift of the day was discovering how terribly cool Kathleen is. I kinda suspected, but it’s nice to have your hunches confirmed! It’s been a long time since I’ve been able to spend that much time with someone and still LIKE them when we part. I’m sorry—I’m just such an introvert, the prospect of spending all day with someone I don’t know well is scary. I was needlessly worried—Kathleen is so witty. She shares my bad habit of mocking the insanity of life and my utter disappointment that Astoria doesn’t have an Anthropologie store. I adore her aesthetic; although it is not mine, so there is no worry about fighting over finds! In all, I think we make a pretty good thrifting team. I mean, we found all our destinations and I didn’t run anyone over or break anything all day!

By the time we got to dinner we were a little punch drunk from our long day and our poor dinner companions had to keep up more than their fair share of the conversation. But we had so much fun. Hanging out with Kathleen turned out to be the best part of my day. Needless to say, future trips have already been planned.

And really, Kathleen, you shouldn’t have! But thank you!!! I’m so glad you did!!