In some ways, I feel like I was gone from this blog long before my writer’s strike last week. I’m feeling a bit checked-out and I blame the weather. IZ has been calling this delightful weather pattern we’re in, “Spinter”. I’m not buying that though, so I’ve been tasking him to prove our weather is worth 2 letters from the word “spring.” I think what we’ve been facing is more like, “S’Winter”. Snow, slush, hail, freezing rain— Yes, I’m going to quibble over that “p” and if you lived here, you would too.
Which brings me to this post: a review of sorts. With bullet points and everything!
Previously on Evidently:
~~My little family went to Seattle and had an amazing time. I do have words about compassion, words I’d like very much to write. I’m in marinade mode, presently. So, it might be some time. But until then, you can read the lovely words Boy Wonder wrote about learning to talk with people of other faiths.
~~Also, 15 days in April is coming to an end today! Wow, time flies, eh? As of tonight, between donations and Thrifty Goodness revenues we’ve raised $80.00 for the Women’s Resource Center. More funds may trickle in and I’ve yet to hear from those who participated, but this feels like a very good first time out!
It’s easy in any service or charitable organization to notice the deficits. I hear it all the time at church, “Wow, look at how few people showed up today!” But, you know, that’s the wrong point of view, I think. In order to live lives of abundance, we have to foster eyes that see abundance. We can choose to focus on who showed up and be thankful for those people. And with that, I want to tell you this small story.
I woke up Sunday morning to an email from an etsy customer. She’d purchased several items and was owed a shipping refund. The subject of her email stated as much; I steeled myself for the request. Thrifty Goodness has a no gouge policy, but people tend to not read the fine print. And I’ll admit, I was groggy, in desperate need of coffee, and in no mood to deal with petty behavior.
Imagine my surprise when this woman wasn’t asking for her refund, but offering to donate it to Women’s Resource Center. It’s a small amount, but a HUGE gesture. I was so touched! And then, really ashamed at my own pettiness. I’d expected to meet something other than what I encountered—and then grace stepped in and I found myself humbled by this small act of generosity. Oh, for eyes that expect to see beauty in the world. Oh, for a heart that hopes with generosity of spirit. We can, we choose.
So, YES! It’s a matter of seeing with our hearts and being thankful for what we have. For those who show up. For those who read. For those who leave comments. For those who support. For those who are present. Of course, we miss those who aren’t here, we wonder about those who don’t read or comment or support—BUT, and this is the critical but, but we choose to focus on the abundance.
I’m certainly thankful for those of you who stepped up and supported this cause. So, Margaret, Katie, Connie (my mom!), and all those etsy shoppers, THANK YOU! You’ve made a very real difference in the lives of some of our most fragile citizens. The world is a better place because of you. And I am a better person for having known you.
~~That just leaves the weather. It always comes back to the weather, doesn’t it? I’m with Calvin, let’s move on to Summer.
Feel free to use Leonard’s word for this “season” – Suck – to him he not only gets to suffer from constantly returning cold but with the joy that is pollen thrown in for additional suffering.
You already know that I like it so I suppose my word won’t help you much in your decision making….yowza!
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YOU DID THIS TO ME. Heh… I feel Leonard’s pain. I’ve started medicating for allergies this week. It’s out of control. It seems a bit unfair to have pollen and SNOW. ~W
“Sprinter” is hilarious. 🙂 It will warm up, I’m almost positive.
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I’m not. Just call me glass bone dry girl. 😀 ~W
I wish I could send some of the heat and sunshine from Tucson your way!! I know how difficult it is to always see the good in everything. It is something am working on. There is a professor in my department that accepts every thing in her life with love. Anything bad that happens, she embraces it with love. Now, that is difficult. I have tried it, it is difficult. I agree with you, instead of focusing on who didn’t show up, we should be grateful for the ones who do! xoxox
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It is hard work, but I think worthwhile work. Don’t you? And yes, send the heat our direction. PLEASE!! ~W
We’ve been having Sprinter too with hail, cold, sun and an amazing variety of weather. I kind of like it, although it plays havoc with my clothing selection in the morning! You’re very welcome! I was delighted to donate.
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Margaret, you make my day. I really do appreciate your generosity. 😀 ~W
So, TexasNorth’s 20% adds up to $25.70… and that seems like so little and I feel a bit silly, but I suppose a donation is a donation, eh? I mean, it could be NOTHING. Those folks could have opted to stay home, but no. In fact, a few came out early knowing there was a fundraiser and paid in advance so their money could be counted. That’s the goods.
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NO! That’s fabulous! Thank you again, so much, for participating. It means a ton to me. And remember, “We can do no great thing, only small things with great love.” Mother Teresa was so right. 😀 ~W